No matter who you are or where you’re from, I’m sure you’ve heard something to the effect of if you don’t love yourself, you can’t love someone else. Or as the iconic RuPaul says, “Honey, if you can’t love yourself, how in the world are you going to love somebody else?” And while I believe there are nuances to this widespread belief, I still think the core of it holds true: we need self-love. Not just to love someone else, but to embrace life fully with all it has to offer.
But what does it really mean to love yourself?
WHY ALONE DOESN’T MEAN LONELY
In mainstream media you might find tips like doing a face mask, repeating affirmations, and smiling more in the mirror. And while all of those things can help, there’s even more we can do physically to boost our confidence, strengthen self-love, and fully explore who we are. Yes. I’m talking about masturbation, ladies!
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Historically, women have been forced to harbor such shame over our bodies– hide tampons up your sleeve when you walk to the bathroom; don’t talk about S E X; cover up or you’re a sl*t; don’t smile too much or you’ll be viewed as ditzy. And I don’t know about you… but I’m OVER it. Why should stigmas rule our worlds and hinder us from living a life full of radiant self-assurance, joy, and pleasure? Especially when science proves that masturbation is a major key to living our lives to the fullest.
Mhm. Read that again. Science.
Research around the world proves that female masturbation boasts a number of pros, such as:
- Reduced risk of cervical infections and UTIs
- Improved cardiovascular health
- Enhanced mood through dopamine release during climax
- Better sleep due to oxytocin release after orgasm
- Strengthened pelvic floor muscles
- Increased libido
…just to name a few.
All that to say, masturbation makes us feel good physically and mentally. Not to mention, taking the time to explore our body, celebrate what makes us feel good, and experience solo pleasure, reminds us that we alone are enough. As Dr. Stills notes, “Since you’re in control of your body when you masturbate… You can cultivate positive feelings about your miraculous body, which gives you confidence from the inside out.”
So the next time you’re alone, know that you don’t have to feel lonely, because you have yourself and that can be just as (if not more) fun.
Erase the stigma. Embrace your personal pleasure. Be confident in your own skin. And explore all that your body has to offer, all on its own.
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