Tips + Advice

Hurrah for drunk sex! 1. Alcohol is the best way to lubricate an evening—to get in someone’s pants and arrive at the portion of a date (or random hook-up) when…

Say “cock” a lot. Refer to said cock as hard, big, fucking huge … whatever floats your boat. But say it. Get comfortable with the word cock because dudes go…

1. They Are Intense About Everything I really do mean everything, their stories are grandiose fabrications, their lives are a huge production and they are the center of it all.…

Guys, reality check: sending dick pics doesn’t make a lady want to date you.Just like being cat-called doesn’t make a woman want to meet the guy yelling at her, or being accosted on the…

1. Don’t stop means don’t stop When I say “don’t stop” that means you should continue exactly what you are doing. Don’t take that as a sign to speed up,…

Despite paradoxes inherent in male sexuality and the culture that encourages men to have sex with women while simultaneously degrading them for being willing to do so, it is my…

“It’s because you slept with him too soon.” That’s the reason your friends tell you he flaked. But it’s not the real reason. The sooner you realise it, the sooner…

You want a relationship — but he isn’t ready for one. You compromise by sleeping together. You tell yourself it’s the best solution for the time being. You tell yourself…

Listen, they don’t call me the Love Guru for nothing, okay? (K, nobody calls me that) I’ve spent years crafting the perfect guide to seduction and I feel it only…

1. Never, ever take off your socks. The last thing you need salting your game is her freaking out in discomfort when your freezing cold toes accidentally caress her calf.…