Essays & Insights

There are songs in this world that feel like love. They are slowed and warm, as though they are suddenly playing inside your belly. The sound goes deeper as the…

Have you ever noticed how the majority of negative comments under a woman’s picture or a video online are often written by other women? They blame each other for not…

I have no idea where the expression “I couldn’t give two shits” came from. Despite being near the top of my ‘commonly used phrases’ list, it still puzzles me why…

1. What the fuck was I thinking dating this rambling angry jerk in the first place? 2. This asshole doesn’t deserve to love me, let alone build a life with me. 3. I can’t have…

What turns someone on or off is a matter of personal taste. For some, it’s as simple as a little heavy petting. But for others, it’s a bit more complicated.…

#10: David Foster Wallace – We forgive you. Nobody wants to hate on him because he expressed the ennui of a generation and he’s dead. But hey. How about treatin’…

“…the moisture is everywhere and the humidity is high. It’s under my skin. The back of my neck is hot under the weight of my long blonde hair that’s quickly…

Fifty percent of women have trouble reaching orgasm, and 10% never will. How many millions of sad vaginas is that? Orgasm advice from friends runs the gamut of “rub your…

The Internet has buzzed about how to improve you for a while now. Let’s take a break from that for a minute. Let’s assume you’re awesome. You probably are, in lots of ways…