Essays & Insights

In August 2013, 33-year-old Phoenix Feeley began a 16-day jail sentence in New Jersey for refusing to pay fines from 2008 when she was arrested for sunbathing topless at a…

Possessing a vagina, aside from the beautiful things that come with it like wide hips and the ability to multi-task, is an incredible financial burden for the average woman. Considering…

I’m curious about vaginas. Not in a sexual way. In an anatomical way. My brothers are both much younger than me, and I remember when they were toddlers, they’d sit…

1. I’d like to see Richard Burton or Sir John Gielgud or Sir Laurence Olivier do “Macbeth”, memorizing all that dialogue, and have a boner. — Ron Jeremy 2. People…

That’s all I could think waiting in that room. The prettiness. Or lack of it. Would I be able to hold my own against the others? I was fighting a…

The covers of most men’s and women’s magazines have similar headlines: get great abs and have amazing sex. From the looks of it, these two issues have been recycled over…

Let’s talk about sex, because it turns out the most important part of cultivating a healthy sex life is talking about a healthy sex life. Only 9% of couples who can’t comfortably…

My mission in picking up Babeland’s “vibe panty” (a pair of black satin underwear with a remote-controlled vibrator sewn into the crotch) is simple: at a little past the two-year dating mark,…

In a wonderfully memorable episode of Sex and the City, a Carrie voice-over makes the following statement: “After I began to get dressed, I realized that I’d done it. I’d…

You end up falling for the same type of guy again and again and again, because you have a particular taste. Or, more accurately, you have a particular fetish that you…