Essays & Insights

1. You get to be selfish without feeling selfish. When no one else is in the sexual equation, you don’t have to feel bad about prioritizing your sensual needs. Masturbating…

“I’m fine.” “That dress looks great on you.” “Everything is going great.” As women, we lie all the time — sometimes to other people, but more often to ourselves. It’s…

It may surprise you to know that I, Jillian Paulson, am in a relationship. A committed one, where we say “love” sometimes. I know, it’s crazy. I’ve never been much…

Young girls are perhaps the most sexual of all human beings. They do a variety of weird and seemingly unexplainable things. How do I know they do these things? It’s…

Many adults with foot fetishes trace their fixation back to a childhood event such as being tickled in their feet during horseplay, some dim distant memory where they simultaneously felt…

If you like the boy next door, you should read Naked by Gina Gordon. “Violet Walker has been hiding. Withdrawn after a terrible car accident, she is worried about going…

1. You read 50 Shades Of Grey and actually thought that was ~*~so spicy~*~ 2. Your idea of kinky is wearing a corset. 3. You’ve worn edible underwear before. 4. You’re repulsed…

There are songs in this world that feel like love. They are slowed and warm, as though they are suddenly playing inside your belly. The sound goes deeper as the…

Have you ever noticed how the majority of negative comments under a woman’s picture or a video online are often written by other women? They blame each other for not…

I have no idea where the expression “I couldn’t give two shits” came from. Despite being near the top of my ‘commonly used phrases’ list, it still puzzles me why…