Essays & Insights

Some people were born out of a diamond-decorated uterus in a private and lavish hospital…while the rest of us were born in a public hospital out of a hardworking, lower-middle-class…

1. There’s rarely a dull moment. Crazy girls act on any urge to do wild, irrational things, which often leads to the relationship being spontaneous and fun. You’ll do things…

Somewhere along the way, scattered articles and studies started claiming that squirting is just pee—and the internet ran with it. But is that actually true? Squirters and their partners were…

Sex Is Hard is a brand new(!) column geared at answering sex questions. I mean, it’s not a complicated premise. But just about everything else we’re going to talk about will…

What is hybristophilia? Most modern women would agree that they want a man who’s sensitive, empathetic, generous, selfless, and gentle. So why is it that every time a man gains…

Note: This is a response piece to Chelsea Fagan’s 13 Very Specific Types of Guys That Are Incredibly Hot 1. The sporty girl I can appreciate a girl who seriously takes…

My whole life, I have related better to women than men. In my formative years, I sought girls out as friends and allies. I was never interested in sports and…

1. You get to be selfish without feeling selfish. When no one else is in the sexual equation, you don’t have to feel bad about prioritizing your sensual needs. Masturbating…

“I’m fine.” “That dress looks great on you.” “Everything is going great.” As women, we lie all the time — sometimes to other people, but more often to ourselves. It’s…

It may surprise you to know that I, Jillian Paulson, am in a relationship. A committed one, where we say “love” sometimes. I know, it’s crazy. I’ve never been much…